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Tad Hargrave: 'The Artist & The Entrepreneur' & Why We Need to be Healed to Market Ethically

Betty Cottam Bertels Season 2 Episode 15
  • Tad on The Artist & The Entrepreneur in business
  • The first two columns: Collapse vs Posture
  • The Third Column: Composure and the marriage of The Artist & Entrepreneur
  • Collapsing & posturing are both strategies; both manipulative
  • When it’s good to collapse/ What happens when a society collapses
  • Collapse & Posture; as a response to hurt
  • Children are inherently manipulative & reactive
  • Viktor Frankl and the space between stimulus & response
  • The importance of initiation & rights of passage in growing into adults
  • People pleasing & the hurt child in business
  • Why we need to be healed as business owners & entrepreneurs & what happens if we don’t
  • How to know where we fit in all of this as individuals
  • The hidden agendas behind collapsing/posturing
  • Betty asks Tad about posturing specifically with women in the coaching industry
  • The importance of getting to the truth over getting what you want; asking ‘Is this a fit?’ with potential clients
  • Betty recalls the desperation of feeling a strong sense of lack
  • Tad; You can’t be ethical when you’re desperate, and what to do if you are
  • Procrastinating and putting off your marketing as a sign that healing is required
  • What happens if you don’t attend to this healing
  • Coercion & some red (and green) flags in the coaching industry
  • Being an adult is about feeding, not being fed
  • How to know when it’s your conscience, and when it’s a wound that’s stopping you
  • Tad reads a poem to conclude; “Letter to the person who carved their initials into the oldest living longleaf pine in North America”

https://marketingforhippies.com/ 

https://poetry.lib.uidaho.edu/poems/letter-to-the-person-who-carved-his-initials-into-the-oldest-living-longleaf-pine-in-north-america/ 

NEW MODEL: Collapsing & Posturing Meets Artist & Entrepreneur



From Betty: Being in business means being visible. Being ethical in business means not using dodgy tactics, of course, but also being authentic in how we present ourselves ~~

The trouble is… Many of us carry wounds around being seen, accepted, and celebrated as the individual we are.

Left untended, these wounds divide our will, i.e. we end up with conflicted desires:

Part of us wants to be visible to grow our businesses, but another part of us is absolutely dead set on staying well and truly within the shadows… Becuase that's where it's SAFE.

…whether that means literally hiding under the duvet (I've been there 🥸),

...mega procrastination & self sabotage

…or pretending to be someone we are not, so as not to stand out (I've also been there 🤫).

The push & pull can be utterly EXHAUSTING.

But the good news is, it's relatively quick & easy to fix, once you access the level of the subconscious mind, using a modality such as hypnosis.

Book your gift session & start getting unstuck today.

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