✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨

Steve James, Guru Viking: Drop Expectation & Experience the Wealth of the Present Moment

Betty Cottam Bertels Season 1 Episode 5
  • Steve: Have no expectations.
  • Steve explores passages that have brought him inspiration: 
  • Rudyard Kipling’s ‘If’, The Eight Worldly Dharmas; 2 Corinthians 6:8-10, The Story of Hakuin taken from the book ‘Zen Flesh, Zen Bones’, by Paul Reps
  • Betty reads a quote from Steve, from a Pandemic Youtube teaching with Michaela Boehm; “Life is like a live jazz improvisation”
  • Betty asks Steve about his & Michaela’s event in London
  • Steve on teaching with Michaela; relationship, embodiment, meditation, intimacy, erotic friction
  • Steve on the ways in which expectations and ‘shoulds’ obstruct enjoyment of ‘what is’
  • Steve on his near-death experience. (Hear him tell the full story on the Awakening Consciousness Podcast here.)
  • Steve on human beings’ tendency to be on auto-pilot in life & relationship; how we relate to our expectations rather than what we are actually seeing & experiencing in any given moment. 
  • Steve on music / learning an instrument
  • Betty asks Steve which artists he listens to when he is happy. [Nicki Wells - When it Goes Quiet]
  • Betty and Steve speak of Leonard Cohen & the meditation teacher Shinzen Young; [Leonard Cohen’s song Love itself]
  • Steve: “Things don’t last”
  • “Here, but deeper”; Betty tells the story of visiting Ffynone Falls; gateway to ‘Annwn’ the ‘Otherworld’ from Welsh folklore.
  • Betty reads the description of Steve & Michaela’s workshop

From Betty: Being in business means being visible. Being ethical in business means being authentic in how we present ourselves.

The trouble is… Many of us carry wounds around being seen, accepted, and celebrated as the individual we are. Left untended, these wounds divide our will, i.e. we end up with conflicted desires:

Part of us wants to be visible to grow our businesses, but another part of us is absolutely dead set on staying well and truly within the shadows…

…whether that means literally hiding under the duvet (I've been there 🥸),

…or whether that means pretending to be someone we are not, so as not to stand out (I've also been there 🤫).

Not only is this BORING, but also… it doesn't WORK:

When we hide our personality, we hide the exact aspects that enable our perfect fit clients to find us, so we end up with people that aren't really a good match, or worse, no one at all.

It's time to drop the shoulds and start being UNAPOLOGETIC in your business.

Save your seat at Betty's free 2 hour authentic visibility masterclass now.

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