✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨
True Wealth is not our bank balance, the car we drive, the size of our home, or how many employees we have.
True Wealth is our ability to appreciate the phenomenal world.
To joyfully give and receive.
To feel connected and part of something bigger than just ourselves.
Many people are externally wealthy -- they have the money, the house, the car, the lifestyle; but internally they are they are poverty stricken, because they are disconnected, unhappy and their hearts are full of resentment and negative emotion.
Others are internally wealthy -- they have the ability to enjoy their lives, nurture healthy relationships, and exercise their creativity, but they have an unhealthy relationship with money, and what it means to meaningfully contribute to society, so they struggle & hide away, or get stuck simply making ends meet... and the world is poorer for it.
Join me, Betty Cottam Bertels, hypnotherapist, life coach, Tantric Buddhist yogini, mum of two, and cheerleader to the brave visionaries, whose courage and creative ways of thinking and being will change our world for the better... as I engage in conversations with the people whose passions and life journeys have in some way inspired me and touched my heart, to bring you thought-provoking, inspiring, and more often then not laughter-filled conversations to bring a little joy to your world, and a little fuel for your inner hearth fire.
May you discover your own unique brilliance, give and receive freely... and may your inner hearth fire brighten up the path to knowing your own true wealth, so that you might inspire the same in others -- even if in only your little corner of the world.
May all beings be happy and free! ✨☀️✨
✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨
Ngak'chang Rinpoche on 'Authentic Appreciation'
"Appreciation and creativity are inseparable – they also give rise to each other. When that happens, thankfulness and cheer arise as a natural understanding that sparkles through your existence."
I have been fortunate to have been an apprentice in the Aro gTer Tibetan Buddhist lineage for the past ten years, with Ngak'chang Rinpoche and his wife Khandro Déchen, as my root teachers, and my greatest inspiration. ✨
In this episode, Rinpoche discusses 'Wealth' as the ability to perceive, and appreciate, via the sense fields.
02.03: Betty introduces Ngak'chang Rinpoche
06.42: Ngak'chang Rinpoche; Your wealth is what you appreciate.
11.10: Why people aren't open to appreciation
13:20: Tibetan Refugees in India; money or lack of it doesn't equate to wealth
16.48: Wanting to prove we are 'real', & the need to have opinions
21.16: Why do we need to prove we are real? The fear of death.
26.58: Rinpoche's shirt; fashion & sartorialism
32.18: Rinpoche's working class background, never feeling poor
42.16: Authentic appreciation lasts a lifetime; 1960s fashion & the William Morris jacket
01.02.45: On doubt and failure
About Ngak'chang Rinpoche:
Ngak'chang Rinpoche is the lineage holder of the 'Aro gTer'; a cycle of teachings within the Nyingma school of Tibetan Buddhism.
He has written twelve books, and there are more on the way.
(Buddhist titles are written under the name Ngakpa Chögyam and non-Buddhist titles under the name Doc Togden. Some books are co-written with his wife Khandro Déchen).
As well as writing books and poetry, Rinpoche is an artist, craftsperson, sartorialist, musician, and parent.
You can find him on Facebook.
From www.arobuddhism.org:
"The sea and sky are our shrine room. The natural elements are our meditation."
"The Aro gTér is a Tibetan Vajrayana Buddhist lineage whose unusual characteristics make it singularly appropriate for many Westerners. The Aro gTér Tradition is principally concerned with
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